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The Ordinary Moments We Miss the Most
One of the surprising truths about grief is this: it’s often the smallest, most ordinary moments that we miss the most. In the beginning, we tend to focus on the big things—the birthdays, the holidays, the milestones that will never look the same again. But as time passes, it’s the quiet, everyday moments that begin to echo the loudest. The casual conversations.The shared meals.The laughter that filled the room for no particular reason. The ordinary rhythm of life we once too
Pat Elsberry
2 days ago2 min read


When Joy and Sorrow Live in the Same Heart
One of the strangest discoveries along the grief journey is realizing that your heart can hold both joy and sorrow at the very same time. In the early days of loss, it can feel impossible to imagine ever experiencing happiness again. The pain is so heavy that it seems to fill every corner of your life. But slowly, something unexpected begins to happen. You might find yourself laughing at something a friend says. You may notice a moment of peace during a quiet walk. You might
Pat Elsberry
May 192 min read


The Love That Has Nowhere to Go
One of the hardest parts of losing someone you love is realizing that all the love you still carry suddenly has nowhere to go. The routines that once held that love—the phone calls, the hugs, the everyday conversations—are gone. Yet the love itself remains, just as strong as ever. For a parent who has lost a child, that love does not fade simply because their child is no longer here. If anything, it feels even more present. You still want to check in on them. You still want t
Pat Elsberry
May 122 min read


Holding Love and Loss on Mother's Day
Mother’s Day can be beautiful for some and painfully complicated for others. For some, it is a day of celebration. For others, it is a reminder of who is missing. Some are grieving mothers now in Heaven. Some are carrying the heartbreak of a child they can no longer hold. Some are longing to become mothers. Some are mothering children while quietly grieving another. And some are simply trying to make it through the day without their hearts unraveling. If this day feels heavy
Pat Elsberry
May 101 min read
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